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Secrecy to Sovereignty
Stop hiding parts of yourself to preserve the relationship. Become honest, visible, and self-owned enough to be fully real inside it.
INCOURAGE COUPLE PRESENTS
Love Each Other—but Still Feel Alone?
Discover the three shifts that helped Matt and Dina create a connection they didn’t know was possible after 35 years of secrecy, addiction, betrayal, survival, and love.
Join Matt and Dina Lantzer for a candid live storytelling experience that may change how you understand yourself, your partner, and the patterns between you.
Friday, November 13, 2026 · 7:00 p.m.
The History Club · 758 South Phillips Avenue · Sioux Falls, SD 57104
$25 · Ages 18+
Includes the Authentic Connection Reflection Guide.
“A great speech is like a great movie—if I’m still thinking about it the next day, it really hit home. Yours definitely did.”— James Oppenheimer
You May Not Have a Love Problem
You can love each other and still:
- Hide what feels too dangerous to reveal
- Repeat the same arguments without resolving what is underneath them
- Experience honesty as a threat
- Treat one another’s pain as accusation
- Defend, fix, withdraw, explain, or attack
- Feel alone while sharing an entire life
The problem may not be a lack of love.You may be caught in patterns neither of you has known how to name.
When Truth Is Rooted in Unconditional Love
Three Shifts That Changed Everything
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Protection to Partnership
Stop treating each other as adversaries. Learn what becomes possible when both people stand on the same side of what needs healing.
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Reaction to Reflection
Stop allowing every trigger to become proof, blame, or danger. Begin recognizing reactions as mirrors that reveal what is asking to be understood.
You’ll Leave With More Than an Inspiring Story
You’ll leave with:
- Language for patterns you may have felt but could not name
- A new way to understand secrecy, defensiveness, triggers, and disconnection
- Questions that can open more honest conversations
- A private reflection guide for exploring your own relationships
- A lived example of what can remain possible after years of hurt
What Authentic Connection Makes Possible
Freedom
to be fully yourself
Safety
to speak honestly
Intimacy
through knowing and being known
Presence
instead of continually reliving the past
Joy
through affection, laughter, and play
Partnership
that allows both people to grow
A relationship does not have to be perfect to become a place where truth can live and both people can flourish.
This Is Not Couples Therapy
It is not a workshop, and you will not be asked to disclose anything personal.
It is an honest, deeply human story about what Matt and Dina lived, what they misunderstood, and what finally changed.
Come with your partner, a friend, a family member, or by yourself.
Their story unfolds through marriage, but the patterns belong to every kind of meaningful relationship.
Authentic, Hopeful, and Deeply Worth Hearing
“Matt and Dina are refreshingly real. I see myself in their 35-year story—in both my relationship successes and failures. They offer no judgment and no pretense, just a beautifully honest look at what it means to keep finding your way back to each other. InCourage Couple is authentic, hopeful, and deeply worth hearing.”— Heather Thomas
Corporate Leader, Keynote Speaker & Founder of Metrics That Matter
“At their last event, Matt and Dina opened the book of their marriage for all to learn from—the terrible lows, the ecstatic highs, and the gritty resilience they used to navigate between the two. I walked away feeling that deep, intimate relationships are not only possible, but worth it. Dina and Matt are at once a power couple and an exceedingly human, imperfections-and-all couple. They definitely had my attention the whole time.”— Jason Freeman
Awkwardly Awesome Speaker, Podcaster & Author
“Matt and Dina shared a deeply personal story that inspired me to realize I could tell a vulnerable story of my own. Their courage and commitment profoundly impacted everyone in the audience. It is a night I will never forget.”— Kiley Naro
“A powerful and honest story of how people can overcome life’s greatest challenges, how a marriage can endure, and how love and trust can be restored.”— Nate Perkins
Sometimes Seeing Another Relationship Clearly Helps You See Your Own
If you have ever loved someone and still struggled to reach them, this evening is for you.
Come hear the story. Recognize the patterns. Discover what may still be possible.
Friday, November 13, 2026 · 7:00 p.m.
The History Club · 758 South Phillips Avenue
Sioux Falls, SD 57104 · Tickets $25 · Ages 18+
Come for their story. You may leave seeing your own differently.